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Invisible Wounds: Why Many Men in India Still Do Not Talk About Their Mental Health - Dr Divya Pal

Many men in India live with a quiet pressure that is rarely spoken about. They are expected to be strong, decisive, and dependable. From childhood, they are told not to cry, not to show emotion, and not to appear vulnerable.

Over time, this conditioning creates an emotional pattern where silence is seen as strength. But beneath that silence lies immense stress, anxiety, and exhaustion that often go unnoticed and untreated.

What is important to understand is that mental health and physical health are not separate. When the mind is under prolonged emotional strain, the body reacts. Chronic stress, depression, and anxiety affect the heart, blood vessels, and brain in ways that can significantly increase the risk of stroke.

When a person experiences emotional distress for a long period, the body continues to release stress hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol. These hormones are useful in short bursts, but constant release causes harm.They raise blood pressure, increase heart rate, and damage the inner lining of arteries.

This process promotes the buildup of fatty deposits in the blood vessels, making them narrow and stiff. Such changes raise the chances of developing hypertension, heart disease, and stroke.

Men often ignore these early warning signs. They dismiss constant headaches, irritability, poor sleep, or fatigue as minor issues, and they rarely seek help until it becomes serious. Some cope by working excessively, smoking, or consuming alcohol, which only worsens the strain on the cardiovascular system.

Over years, these habits, combined with untreated mental stress, create a dangerous environment in the body that can lead to a stroke.

Studies have shown that people with depression or anxiety are more likely to develop vascular changes that increase stroke risk. Persistent stress also leads to inflammation and an imbalance in blood clotting, which can block the flow of blood to the brain.

These are not abstract connections.They are measurable, clinical outcomes that link emotional health directly with neurological health.

Even after a stroke, mental health continues to play a vital role. Many men who survive a stroke struggle with depression or anxiety during recovery but rarely discuss it.

The emotional impact of losing independence or physical ability can be profound. When left unaddressed, it can slow rehabilitation and affect overall recovery. Patients who receive timely psychological support, alongside medical care, often recover faster and report better quality of life.

It is time we understand that taking care of mental health is an essential part of preventing physical illness. Regular exercise, balanced nutrition, adequate rest, and relaxation practices such as meditation help manage stress and lower blood pressure.

Most importantly, seeking help from a mental health professional should be viewed as a step of strength, not weakness. Just as we would consult a doctor for high blood pressure or diabetes, seeking guidance for emotional health is equally important.

Families and workplaces can help by creating an atmosphere where men feel comfortable sharing what they feel. Encouraging open conversations and listening without judgment can prevent years of suppressed stress that silently harms the body.

Mental health is the unseen pillar of overall well-being. When the mind remains burdened, the body eventually bears the consequences. Recognizing emotional distress, addressing it early, and creating awareness about its connection to stroke can save countless lives.

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article are of the author and not of Health Dialogues. The Editorial/Content team of Health Dialogues has not contributed to the writing/editing/packaging of this article.


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